Responsibility

For many a times, when people turn up to consult a hypnotist, psychologist, counsellor and others, they have the wrong mindset. They think that these professional should be held responsible for any changes on him or her. This is not right. The onus must never be solely on these professionals though I must agree they do have to carry the responsibility for the process and outcome.

If the subject does not want to have any responsibility, the effect of the outcome may not be what he or she would like to see. The moment one accepts the responsibility, he or she will be more positive towards the treatment/healing. The key here is ACCEPT. Acceptance is the first step towards opening up a person's mind so that the mind does not resist but instead make peace with whatever he is experiencing. Only then the person can make the second and third step of taking responsibility or be more receptive to the professional's advice. Because of his expectancy, what he expects is what he gets.